Have a date with a man who promises and are as happy as nervous. Want to know how to make everything go well? Take a deep breath, smile and keep reading.
1. It's just a game
An appointment is not a test or a job interview, but the opportunity to spend some time getting to know another person. An experience that has to be fun and enjoyable for both. So you do not have too many expectations neither contend that your date will become the love of your life or your savior. What if it goes wrong? Well ... in the worst case, it will become a good story to tell your friends.
2. Be yourself
Dress with a set that can not fail because it makes you feel comfortable and attractive. Or buy yourself something new and enjoy the feeling of a garment brand (and maybe a relationship!) But do not costumes. Avoid wearing a dress two sizes smaller or with heels that can not walk. If you dress too or just to look like you dress sexy, he will realize and impress rather will create the opposite effect.
3. Let your ex in (his) house
Your date wants to meet you. Not interested to know how selfish he is your ex-husband (do not be fooled: he will think that if you think you bad, everyone else). Do not talk about your last boyfriend and how you left (you'll wonder what were their motives). Bored and not interested.
4. Speak in positive
Only one thing more boring than the former talks about, and talk about the problems with your office colleagues, economic recession or life in general. Complaints, criticisms and prejudices should also be out of your speech. The best you can do is sincerely interested in your life, ask questions and listen. That is the secret of great seductive, plus they love to hear them!
5. Behave naturally
We all want our partner to accept us as we are, right? So, dare to be yourself. Do not pretend to be better than you (think you) are. Do not try to impress him as though he were a customer or a potential boss. Be spontaneous, bring the opposite if you disagree on something, talk to your tastes ... A tip that may help: Imagine you're with a good friend who wear time without seeing.
6. Know your strengths
You are worth much. Believe it! Cítate yourself for a coffee somewhere nice, and devotes some time to write about your virtues. What do you have to offer? What makes you special? What are your interests, your hobbies, your strengths? Keep them always present and never forget that you are a valuable person to which many men would want to know.
7. Prick
We all have an image of our ideal partner in the head, but do not waste the appointment dreaming of that perfect lover while you miss the person before you. Be surprised. Maybe he does not look like your dream prince because, really, is showing you that you need something else or it's time to break old patterns of thought.
8. Feel Safe
Although it is he who calls you, choose your site. Looking for a room or an area that you like because it makes you feel safe, sound familiar or well connected. These do not feel out of place, adding stress to a situation which in itself is already a little tense. Try not to go to the movies or to a noisy nightclub. Neither too intimate place, like a restaurant with candles. How about a walk in the park, a mid-afternoon coffee or a casual dinner?
9. Do not look needy
Yes, it is good that not costumes and be reasonably natural and sincere. But there's something you control. Do not give the impression of being a princess longing to be rescued, or tell you that your goal is to get married and have many children. Your appointment will run and never call again. Yes, we all want someone to be able to be vulnerable and open the heart, but that is a process that takes time. The first meeting is to get acquainted and have fun without pressure.
9. Take it philosophy
If the event goes well, fantastic. You may be starting a nice story. But if not, think that nothing happens. Even if you feel a little disappointed, remember that the doors are still open and the best is yet to come. Is not that much better than resigned to be with someone who does not suit you or become entangled in a destructive relationship? Repítetelo all times as it takes before you leave home: just a date!
10. Do not obsess
Are you one of those women who after the first date and are deciding if the name of it sounds good with the name you always wanted to put your future baby? Beware of first impressions, it may end up in a great disappointment. Avoid obsessing and watch the phone every few minutes to see if called. Get on with your life like before you know, enjoy and do your plans and try to think that everything will be fine.
1. It's just a game
An appointment is not a test or a job interview, but the opportunity to spend some time getting to know another person. An experience that has to be fun and enjoyable for both. So you do not have too many expectations neither contend that your date will become the love of your life or your savior. What if it goes wrong? Well ... in the worst case, it will become a good story to tell your friends.
2. Be yourself
Dress with a set that can not fail because it makes you feel comfortable and attractive. Or buy yourself something new and enjoy the feeling of a garment brand (and maybe a relationship!) But do not costumes. Avoid wearing a dress two sizes smaller or with heels that can not walk. If you dress too or just to look like you dress sexy, he will realize and impress rather will create the opposite effect.
3. Let your ex in (his) house
Your date wants to meet you. Not interested to know how selfish he is your ex-husband (do not be fooled: he will think that if you think you bad, everyone else). Do not talk about your last boyfriend and how you left (you'll wonder what were their motives). Bored and not interested.
4. Speak in positive
Only one thing more boring than the former talks about, and talk about the problems with your office colleagues, economic recession or life in general. Complaints, criticisms and prejudices should also be out of your speech. The best you can do is sincerely interested in your life, ask questions and listen. That is the secret of great seductive, plus they love to hear them!
5. Behave naturally
We all want our partner to accept us as we are, right? So, dare to be yourself. Do not pretend to be better than you (think you) are. Do not try to impress him as though he were a customer or a potential boss. Be spontaneous, bring the opposite if you disagree on something, talk to your tastes ... A tip that may help: Imagine you're with a good friend who wear time without seeing.
6. Know your strengths
You are worth much. Believe it! Cítate yourself for a coffee somewhere nice, and devotes some time to write about your virtues. What do you have to offer? What makes you special? What are your interests, your hobbies, your strengths? Keep them always present and never forget that you are a valuable person to which many men would want to know.
7. Prick
We all have an image of our ideal partner in the head, but do not waste the appointment dreaming of that perfect lover while you miss the person before you. Be surprised. Maybe he does not look like your dream prince because, really, is showing you that you need something else or it's time to break old patterns of thought.
8. Feel Safe
Although it is he who calls you, choose your site. Looking for a room or an area that you like because it makes you feel safe, sound familiar or well connected. These do not feel out of place, adding stress to a situation which in itself is already a little tense. Try not to go to the movies or to a noisy nightclub. Neither too intimate place, like a restaurant with candles. How about a walk in the park, a mid-afternoon coffee or a casual dinner?
9. Do not look needy
Yes, it is good that not costumes and be reasonably natural and sincere. But there's something you control. Do not give the impression of being a princess longing to be rescued, or tell you that your goal is to get married and have many children. Your appointment will run and never call again. Yes, we all want someone to be able to be vulnerable and open the heart, but that is a process that takes time. The first meeting is to get acquainted and have fun without pressure.
9. Take it philosophy
If the event goes well, fantastic. You may be starting a nice story. But if not, think that nothing happens. Even if you feel a little disappointed, remember that the doors are still open and the best is yet to come. Is not that much better than resigned to be with someone who does not suit you or become entangled in a destructive relationship? Repítetelo all times as it takes before you leave home: just a date!
10. Do not obsess
Are you one of those women who after the first date and are deciding if the name of it sounds good with the name you always wanted to put your future baby? Beware of first impressions, it may end up in a great disappointment. Avoid obsessing and watch the phone every few minutes to see if called. Get on with your life like before you know, enjoy and do your plans and try to think that everything will be fine.
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