When the first date went well, you're dying for the second set. And while there is a struggle between the desire to maintain independence and jumping into the arms of a new love.
And that's the moment you wake up all fears, memories of past failures, the desire to love and be loved mixed with fear of rejection ... An emotional upheaval caused by the proximity of something (a new relationship) want and fear in equal measure. But calm, you can handle this earthquake and maintain sanity.
He liked you and you want to see him again, right? You also like you, because you go out again proposed or accepted your proposal. So enjoy and continue to focus on knowing him, without getting caught up in all these fears and contradictions.
Listen to your intuition
• The second quote is a perfect time to be very attentive to the impressions you get from it. If at first you ought not to judge too quickly and catalog, and the second time he is showing you how it really is and you should do the same if you do not want to waste time.
• It is time to trust a maximum of your intuition. Why? Because never deceives us, and because it is easier to hear your voice at the beginning of a relationship, when you have not established strong ties with that person and do not deceive yourself as you could do it later, if you blind infatuation to the point they prefer to stay hanging on a fantasy and justify the unjustifiable to remove such person.
Where to go on the second date
• Venture a little further and get carried away by their suggestions or accept an invitation to dinner. What happens next depends on your good judgment. Overall, there is good sex so soon if you want a serious relationship project with him. But like everything else, no inflexible rules. If you are thinking of nothing stable, if you do not mind the rules, if you like, and feel that it is time, do it.
• You can go to the movies, the theater or a sporting event. These are situations in which they have to be face to face, holding his gaze and conversation, but the two are aware of what is happening on the screen or on the court, and that will help you relax, and experience life in common binding.
To talk about on the second date
• Try to show safe and positive. Flirt is perfect, but you yourself gradients like trying only for your physical. That's too easy. Believe that you are able to like and love by the way you are. That you're a single woman with desires, dreams and projects. Someone worth knowing.
• Show up displays all your female and attractive, without fear of appearing vulnerable or hide your desire to find a partner to protect you. Let him see, while you are an independent woman with a career or a job, which makes its own decisions and have their own approach and ideas. This is important because men are alert. Do not want a woman in the emotional self, the masculine resentful that they would feel useless. But they do not want a princess who believes that he is there only to serve.
• Be smart and let him talk. This will give get to know you better and you are happy with you. It is not easy to find someone to listen to us right? Note that for men is even harder. They are trained to not talk about their feelings and share confidences are not so intimate with their friends as we do ourselves.
• If you really like her, give her your full attention. Make eye contact, smile, seduces with a smile, laugh at his jokes, ask questions ...
What to avoid
• Remember that the situation must be balanced. It's time to talk over you, have something more intimate things. To what extent? Nor are there rules for that. It depends on the confidence they have. Maybe the chemistry is excellent and feel that they have much in common despite known for days, understood with few words. In that case, go ahead with confidence.
• Be careful, though, not to sound needy, desperate, bitter ...... And also notice that he does not seem so. Do we mean to hide a part of ourselves or act falsely? No. it is attitude. Like wanting to make the evening enjoyable and the other person. To ensure that neither are launched to conquer the other by desperation, fear of loneliness or even revenge against a former partner.
And that's the moment you wake up all fears, memories of past failures, the desire to love and be loved mixed with fear of rejection ... An emotional upheaval caused by the proximity of something (a new relationship) want and fear in equal measure. But calm, you can handle this earthquake and maintain sanity.
He liked you and you want to see him again, right? You also like you, because you go out again proposed or accepted your proposal. So enjoy and continue to focus on knowing him, without getting caught up in all these fears and contradictions.
Listen to your intuition
• The second quote is a perfect time to be very attentive to the impressions you get from it. If at first you ought not to judge too quickly and catalog, and the second time he is showing you how it really is and you should do the same if you do not want to waste time.
• It is time to trust a maximum of your intuition. Why? Because never deceives us, and because it is easier to hear your voice at the beginning of a relationship, when you have not established strong ties with that person and do not deceive yourself as you could do it later, if you blind infatuation to the point they prefer to stay hanging on a fantasy and justify the unjustifiable to remove such person.
Where to go on the second date
• Venture a little further and get carried away by their suggestions or accept an invitation to dinner. What happens next depends on your good judgment. Overall, there is good sex so soon if you want a serious relationship project with him. But like everything else, no inflexible rules. If you are thinking of nothing stable, if you do not mind the rules, if you like, and feel that it is time, do it.
• You can go to the movies, the theater or a sporting event. These are situations in which they have to be face to face, holding his gaze and conversation, but the two are aware of what is happening on the screen or on the court, and that will help you relax, and experience life in common binding.
To talk about on the second date
• Try to show safe and positive. Flirt is perfect, but you yourself gradients like trying only for your physical. That's too easy. Believe that you are able to like and love by the way you are. That you're a single woman with desires, dreams and projects. Someone worth knowing.
• Show up displays all your female and attractive, without fear of appearing vulnerable or hide your desire to find a partner to protect you. Let him see, while you are an independent woman with a career or a job, which makes its own decisions and have their own approach and ideas. This is important because men are alert. Do not want a woman in the emotional self, the masculine resentful that they would feel useless. But they do not want a princess who believes that he is there only to serve.
• Be smart and let him talk. This will give get to know you better and you are happy with you. It is not easy to find someone to listen to us right? Note that for men is even harder. They are trained to not talk about their feelings and share confidences are not so intimate with their friends as we do ourselves.
• If you really like her, give her your full attention. Make eye contact, smile, seduces with a smile, laugh at his jokes, ask questions ...
What to avoid
• Remember that the situation must be balanced. It's time to talk over you, have something more intimate things. To what extent? Nor are there rules for that. It depends on the confidence they have. Maybe the chemistry is excellent and feel that they have much in common despite known for days, understood with few words. In that case, go ahead with confidence.
• Be careful, though, not to sound needy, desperate, bitter ...... And also notice that he does not seem so. Do we mean to hide a part of ourselves or act falsely? No. it is attitude. Like wanting to make the evening enjoyable and the other person. To ensure that neither are launched to conquer the other by desperation, fear of loneliness or even revenge against a former partner.
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