What to do after the first date?

If prior to the first date nerves dominated, then increase the questions. Let's find answers.Back to be, yes or no?It all depends on how you wake up the next morning. If you wake smiling, full of life, thinking about him ... obviously it worked.But it may happen that the next day do not feel like to hear from that person: you do not like it enough, your intuition tells you "not" ... What to do? Take a few days to be sure of what you feel. You might be prejudiced and even fear at the prospect of a new relationship or a different person to have always frequented.If he insists neither let it be and passes page. If you see him excited but you need time, write but try not to burn stages, as many men get excited like a child with a new toy.And if they decide they prefer to stay friends, fine, do it, a beautiful friendship can emerge and become confident in each other emotional issues. Or as lovers without a deeper bond, why not if you are unclear.If not you like or you no longer like, then do not complicate, let yourself go, go out with him again and maybe spark arises, not everything has to be love at first sight.But if the appointment would not let you taste good and feel disappointed, not tempted to autocompadecerte with the "I'm too old", falling into cynicism of "everyone is equal" or topicazos as "all the good ones are married or are gay. " Either you punish yourself for having endured profanity or wasted time. Maybe you did not want to be rude and leave early. Maybe you were not sure and wanted to watch him throughout the match. All right. It's okay.Attractions concrete while the second dateDo not obsess thinking in their judgments. Surely you are much tougher than him. Remember what men really want. Of course they care about the physical and age, but a wise man does not want a doll with no brain, but an accomplice. In the men's world there are so many close friendships or opportunities to share feelings, and can be a very corseted.If he really looking for a relationship, you want someone who makes you feel special, with whom he can be himself, open up, break the pose. Always keep this very present and not get obsessed with your body, your supposed defects, if you guessed right with the set or not.Turn to your friends to comment on the move, your doubts, compare, discuss, in order, as we like to do a lot of women. Not atosigues him with calls or messages while you die of want. You may be afraid. Also we may flatter, but get bored quickly. Avoid release "danger signals", not the relationship you want speed, they tend to panic and move away when they feel that something is going too fast or forced.Perhaps most men do not express their feelings easily, but have an instinct that tells you that something is wrong. Do not know what that something is, but they must leave.Review the situationWhile returning to look or not, give yourself some time to reflect. Take a walk or a swim, or a coffee with your best friend. Will be difficult if you are so excited that you just want him whats appear go shopping or to a set for the second date, but think a little thought can save a lot of trouble in the future. Especially if you've gone through several disappointments, do not let this also be.What should you look for? Think about how you tried, how you went, if you made any comments mystifying or rude, which was of himself, what he was wearing, how she behaved, drank too much, there is something in it that will not close? If in doubt leave them out aloud, better if someone you trust. Remember that the sooner you are honest with yourself, the better.And finally, if all goes well, they like him is interested, you too, are called, are in contact, without neither be suspicious, excessive or hopeless, fantastic. Do not hold back. Do not be afraid. Not anticipate possible failures. Let go and move on.