Well, what its going to happen? So just proceed and talk to her. Nor is it a situation as if your life depended on it, but you may not see her again.
Generally it is best to assume that she has a boyfriend, not to be too risky. With that in mind, give yourself a chance to try and start a chat.
What its going happen? Well, she tells you: "Sorry, I'm not available", with a response like that you save time and money on a date with her. Think so, when a woman says "no" you should feel a great relief.
If you know you'll see her again, as in your university, your work or working in a restaurant, you can have another chance with it and use the shy man's approach to get an appointment.
Instead of you to dinner or a date whose purpose is romantic, better get some tickets for a concert or event and then with tickets in hand say, "Look, it gave me these tickets for this event. If you like I can accompany and be glad you took. "
Thus, the topic of conversation revolves around the event. Talk about the person who will sing at the concert, instead of probing if they can go together or not. She can very easily say yes or no, or make you more questions about you or about the date and venue.
You see, she does not feel the pressure of having to reject you, so you can reject the event and not to you, only that!
On the other hand, if she can not accompany the event, but it turns out that is interested in you, she can shuffle the idea of going out with you another time.
I offered several times this technique of "tickets, tickets, tickets, etc.." for any man that is on the verge of obsession with a woman at work, shop or restaurant, etc.. and has not the slightest idea how to address it. If the girl is available, they usually say yes to the invitation. After all, just about an event and nothing more. There is a saying.
I emphasise this technique of "entries" in my time at the university to invite an attractive stranger. It was quite shy, but I liked this girl too, so I decided to go for it. Whenever I looked at her, watching her surrounded by subjects. Grrrr, how I dislike that! It took a couple of weeks before you can watch while walking alone address it. I told him if he wanted to see in seats reserved for the exhibition of a film that premiered and she said, "Well, do not know much, but if you come and speak a couple of times to know you, then good can do! "
So in the next few days I did all sorts of attempts to exchange a few words with her as she was surrounded by other subjects. Then I realized she was taking a film appreciation class I had taken the previous semester. So I convinced the teacher to spend my new 16mm action film in the class she attended. He clearly understood that there was a secret motive because he said the exhibit in the morning class, but I insisted to do so in the afternoon class (to which the girl attended). Finally, he agreed to move the film.
Not only directed the film, but I also had my participation there, where I try out my new skills in karate, so I expected her to be surprised. The show was great with the whole class, and who applauded and praised. As she left the classroom, the boarded and said, "Well, now I think I know enough, yes?". She said: "To go out with you?". I replied, "Yes." She smiled and nodded his head yes.
So, "do not invite a date," "do not take her to dinner." Get some tickets and maybe she'll answer as Cameron Diaz in "Charlie's Angels", "Tickets? Love tickets".
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