To break the ice and make the first contact, web sites dedicated to online dating have different methods, all very effective because participants accept these rules. For example, you can send a message, an "icebreaker" or somehow let him know you are interested or concerned. But one of the most intriguing and seductive is the instant message. With this method, site participants can see if you are online and send a message that will decide-or no-answer. The instant message method is widely used because it helps to approach and lets you spontaneously show: a quiet, friendly, soft or very funny. The conversation takes place in real time, but because of that, you have to consider some details.
Talk is just, with grace and humor: do not write a novel in each message. It may be that while the other person is chatting or exchanging messages with other candidates and if you send a message endless, it is likely to leave the conversation. Use humor, grace and concision, try to arouse and maintain interest.
Do not show your cards: We all have something we know we can love the other person. Our eyes, our smile, our observations of reality ... It is the ace in the hole that we keep to impress. If you do, do not show it in this first conversation, try to be subtle intrigue to keep about your person, to awaken and rekindle the desire to meet you. Do not try to "sell" saying all the good, friendly and fun you are, as he or she will recognize the play and quickly lose interest.
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